Why are married men in Pakistan unfaithful to their wives?
A very simple question. But, the answer is neither forthcoming nor so simply put in words.. I can hear a multitude of voices raised, some hysterical, some outright angry, some willful and assertive and some merely sad, they are no simple answers to this conundrum.
Men in Pakistan, and again, I am talking about middle and upper class men, married and with families, are perpetually on the lookout for desirable and delectable women to have flings with.
The foremost thing they start with is euphemistic - they are not, hell never, looking for unconstrained and wild sex with another woman! NO! They are looking for yes the same word - "friendship" hahahahahah (as if???) What sort of friendship is this exactly? and why only with a sensuous hot woman and not with another middle-aged balding man? These men, the would be infidels, are so very irritating, for they are out in the 'singles' market to hitch with good-looking women, for none of them wants any one half ugly or God forbid, plain.... They have the audacity to think and believe that despite a wife and the kids, not to mention very obvious years hanging about their faces and midriffs plus not-so-interesting personalities they do not, represent Prince Charming!! That blasphemous thought never crosses their minds, hell! for in their own estimation they are a good 'catch." So, we have a plethora of these wanna-be-boyfriends men around who are so not wanted.
If and when they hit a target, that is get a woman close enough to talk to them - comes out the truth of all times spanning eons of marital history -- my wife doesn't understand me, I have nothing in common with her, but I am bearing her for the sake of my adorable kids (usually ugly as sin in reality,) I have no relationship with my wife for the last (always a double digit figure) 10 err.. 12 years, or a little bold --uff she's a bitch and I hate her and her family so there you go.
These very unhappily married men, want to be loved and understood, they want peace and quite and a sanctuary from the harsh reality of the world.. they are hopeless, struggling men who are working their butts off for their ungrateful wives and kids! and they want a woman (preferably young and sexy) to give them a shoulder to cry, to be their soul-mates.....
The same men, who are never polite and loving to their wives become a paragon of gentleness with these new paramours, they shower them with compliments, they want to take them out to dinners and lunches.
What is or are the reasons these men go hunting for newer and newer women? why is it that they are never satisfied with the person they are with? Don't give me lame excuses about men wanting "variety" or change or them wanting this on account of their biology which pushes them to be promiscuous!
I have not yet mastered the art of trying to solve natural and super-natural mystery of this sort for I know, my talents are way too limited, and the question in hand way too lethal to render itself to any simple solutions... I therefore lay the problem bare and ask you to attempt answering it.....
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